i remember all my life growing up, i put others first...i did...
and mostly, my mom will select things for me...
i live with what i think i can buy, what i think i can afford, what i think necessary...
because i know, asking money from my parents is like a nightmare...
because i know, they have other things to worry about...
i sat down one night at the edge of my bed, wondering...
what i really want for my hantaran...
what i really want from my bridal...
what i really want from my wedding ceremony...
its...jus one day...
but...once in a lifetime....that one is what i hope for...forever...
once in a lifetime and to spend thousands RM for it...
does it have to be like that??
all i know, ive made a few steps...
>>> i want the ceremony in shades of pink...or red...but i really wanted red...
but H2B said "huh, red??!" with a weird look on his face =_=!! so..ok..no red...
when i say pink, everyone seem unlikely to like the idea. bcz not all men want to wear pink
..ok fine, mixture of pink n silver..
>>>i want things to be simple...hantaran things??
the only one thought that i want is BodyShop thingyss...bcoz i jus love Bodyshop things...
then wut?? perfume?? mistakely i bought 'the perfume' too soon n became history..i shouldve waited..
i know i should..so, right now, i dont really want to buy perfume...
wut else?? baju = recycle from Pasar Payang Tganu...bcz its shades of pink n maroon and i didnt made the baju yet...the guess bag?? i tot it would ruin the whole thing..its big n bulky...i hv second tots about it...
no kasut, no perfume, no make ups, no small handbag...what is it that i want??
enuf with the sighing...
we dont usually get what we want..
and yes, i rather give up all that i have jus to gain that one precious thing from my dear H2B...
>>> Your time for attention, affection, care and love... <<<
that is all that im asking...that is all i want...
about the wedding...i dont really mind...jus as long as everyone is happy about it...
hye awk...
ReplyDeletedun worry..
during my engagement, d grooms side decided not to give any hantaran..
and the moment i knew it..
i was so down
coz ms engagement..
i didnt ask for the stuffs that i want like hand bag, shoes, make ups..etc..
and my aunts is making a fuss about it..
then i took sometimes..act few days to think about it..
and i realize that's not even important for my wedds..
all i want is juz to tying the knot to make the relationship legal in islam..
so then, i never questioned about it and when people ask me how many dulang for hantaran..
i said 3 which is d ring, mas kahwin and wang hantaran..
and when they ask me x de barang2 ke?
i said its ok..u can buy after kahwnin kan?
and i plan to give him 5..but his mom said..
no need..they dun act expect me to balas blk ..
and u can look at the positive side which is the more u ask for hantaran.
the more u have to give to him rite?
ye la d bride;s have to give extra 2 kan..
and actually hantaran is actually adat yg org buat..
well act u can save more then ms dh kawen u can asked something much more expensive..
juz a 2cents from my opinion...
keep in touch and all d best in ur preparations..May Allah bless u with rezq..insyaAllah
dear dalila,
ReplyDeletetq sooo much..
its a relief..
tp tu lah, bcoz his side..mmg nak macam2..well, i tak kesah sgt..its his money, so he can buy everything that he wants..
so far, our parents let us decide ourself...so mmg kene decide lorr..huhu
owh, fyi, i takde engagement ceremony, time risik terus tunang..huuuu...mmg takde dulang2 nih, h2b jus bawak cincin risik jer..huhu
so far brg2 sume dah ada..plus minus je...hopefully it goes well...huhu
thank u dear...its more than jus a 2cents from u...mungkin 50cent!! :)