Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Scrapaperclip Giveaway Anniversary!!!

Jom Join Scrap@perclip Giveaway!! 




hopefully tak lambat sgt....
im just trying my luck...
hehe..sbb tak penah dapat...
sgt2 suka with the idea..
its sooo cute..love the black n red combination..
gorjessss ok!!

so, try out kat Scrap@perclip tau

yang ni pun..chumel!!! ^_^!!




kannnnn???!!!

Monday, January 16, 2012

what do i want??

Most of the time, i dont really know what i want...
i remember all my life growing up, i put others first...i did...
and mostly, my mom will select things for me...
i live with what i think i can buy, what i think i can afford, what i think necessary...
because i know, asking money from my parents is like a nightmare...
because i know, they have other things to worry about...

i sat down one night at the edge of my bed, wondering...
what i really want for my hantaran...
what i really want from my bridal...
what i really want from my wedding ceremony...
its...jus one day...
but...once in a lifetime....that one is what i hope for...forever...
once in a lifetime and to spend thousands RM for it...
does it have to be like that??

all i know, ive made a few steps...

>>> i want the ceremony in shades of pink...or red...but i really wanted red...
but H2B said "huh, red??!" with a weird look on his face =_=!! so..ok..no red...
when i say pink, everyone seem unlikely to like the idea. bcz not all men want to wear pink
..ok fine, mixture of pink n silver..

>>>i want things to be simple...hantaran things??
the only one thought that i want is BodyShop thingyss...bcoz i jus love Bodyshop things...
then wut?? perfume?? mistakely i bought 'the perfume' too soon n became history..i shouldve waited..
i know i should..so, right now, i dont really want to buy perfume...
wut else?? baju = recycle from Pasar Payang Tganu...bcz its shades of pink n maroon and i didnt made the baju yet...the guess bag?? i tot it would ruin the whole thing..its big n bulky...i hv second tots about it...
no kasut, no perfume, no make ups, no small handbag...what is it that i want??

enuf with the sighing...
we dont usually get what we want..
and yes, i rather give up all that i have jus to gain that one precious thing from my dear H2B...
>>> Your time for attention, affection, care and love... <<<

that is all that im asking...that is all i want...

about the wedding...i dont really mind...jus as long as everyone is happy about it...



Sunday, January 8, 2012

Pindah Rumah...

it started out bad about this...tapi Allah betul2 hendak menduga semua ni...
so, we actually decided to create a new life..
since we are heading for a new life...maybe this moving into a new place will be a head good start for us both...
Alhamdulillah, En H2B dah carikan rumah...jelas terpancar di wajahnya sirna...hehe...he was smiling all the way...i bet he actually fell in love at 1st sight of the place...
the place is about 15mins from the office..
in front of a Surau...Alhamdulillah...
1st floor, with 3 bedrooms, 1 bathroom...newly renovated...partially furnish..
semua bilik ada katil and its, really2 new...
after the trip to see house we went to mcdonalds, still talking about it...

the questions:
can we afford to pay the rent??
is the location ok??
are u ok with it...??
is there any better place??
are we still goin to look for another place??

seriously, byk giler questions popping out from my mouth...i dont want to make another mistake like the previous matter in our journey heading for marriage...
so, i asked him everything that i think important so i dont get blamed neither will he...

and all i can say, he is just worried about me being alone for a couple of months without him...^_^ hehehe
well...since yesterday, we have another 3 months to go...im jus going to be alone and single like always for another 3 months...DONT U WORRY SYG!!!

so, we send an sms to Pak Hassan the Landord that we want to rent it...well, tht's done after an agreement with each other and a hand shake and also my thumb n his pressing the send button to send the msg to Pak Hassan...

i guess if anything goes wrong...it'll be both of us to be blame...huhuhuuuu~~~

pindah rumah baru is in progress...checked!!!

check list...baju nikah...nilai 3/2

ive open up a new blog a few months ago because of the wedding..then DELETE..
sebabnya macam tak best pulak...banyak betul blog! tak larat nk tengok dua2..
kerja opis pon tak terlarat nak habis kan inikan pule blog...last-last = spiderwebby all the way...

so, check list...
ive up loaded a checklist last time in the new blog...
tp since dah delete...hiuhiuhiuuuuuu...kene upload balik lah
so far i hv 2 listings...
1. budget list
2. checklist

and so far yg paling update is the budget list..since nak tahu byk ke tak duit yg kuar...
Mr H2B tengah pening kepala...hihihhiii sbb byk duit dia yg kuar ;p
takpelah sayang...nnt i top up lerrrr
dun worry ok....mwuahxxx

yesterday, pegi hantar baju nikah kat Elyn a.k.a Elyn Creation...
1st time jumpe dia..huhu
chumel jer orgnye ;p
sgt memahami n boleh tukar2 pendapat dengan dia...
she takes up baju nikah, tunang n busana pengantin juga....
harga sgt2 berpatutan..
klw nak try boleh laaa pg page dia ok!

the day before that went to Nilai 3 n Nilai 2 with my Mom, my mak uda and my hunny bunny Maid of Honor Jejett..
walaupun starting of the day, i was crying n trying to held my tears (because ada one sad story...sedih giler) while driving smpai sesat2 n salah jalan nak pegi Nilai 3 tu, in the end every single one of my lurvesss nih sgt2 supporting...citer sedih tu nnt lah citer...wat saye sedih jerrr...

beli ape??
 1. baju wedding day for the family (my mom adik beradik side - parents only...)
2. baju nikah - akhirnyerrr.. n murah jugak laaa..dah tak mampooo nak beli mahal2
3. bunga pahar
4. bottles for goodies vip
5. bunga for my hantaran
6. langsir for rumah
dll tu sume my mom yg nak tambah2...

jumlah pelaburan = rm 3000.... =_+!!!
Ma...kaklong dpt bagi rm300 je dulu..huhuhuhuu...sume duit dlm ASB

so this is the baju n oso the bottles for goodies..cekidaoud..

 

Monday, January 2, 2012

A New Change...and Change is Good... 2012

1st... happy new year everyone..its 2012 already..wake up n smell the differences..

2nd.. i would like to start a new post with QUOTES...

" Discipline is the bridge between goals and accomplishment. "
                                                                                         ~~~ Jim Rohn


" It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad. "
                                                                                        ~~~ C. S. Lewis




they say that the world ends in 2012...

but who knows the Act of Allah...
but it is the end of the world..
Dunia Akhir Zaman...
Akhir = End
even our Mother Earth is dying...
we can only hope for the best...and do the best we can...
InsyaAllah...the changes im going through is a Good Change...
Yes...I am willing to change...and I hope the fear of changing will subside with the increase of Confidence...
InsyaAllah..

Saturday, December 24, 2011

the Dates : Revealed

Salam Semua...
reviewing all of the things needed...
im revealing the Dates..

Since my Atok Rashid is the head (i mean, he is still the Elderly in our family) of the family...We all have to follow his rules...as in the Adat Perkahwinan (i know My Sayang dun like it..but he said, Follow jelah)

So, the Adat in Malay Culture :-


Merisik
Adat ini juga dipanggil meninjau atau menengok. Tujuan adat ini dilakukan adalah untuk memastikan bahawa gadis yang dihajati oleh seorang lelaki itu masih belum berpunya. Ini penting, kerana dalam Islam seseorang itu dilarang meminang tunangan orang.

Meminang
Setelah diketahui bahawa gadis tersebut belum berpunya, pihak keluarga lelaki akan menetapkan hari untuk menghantar satu rombongan peminangan. Urusan peminangan akan dilakukan oleh kaum keluarga terdekat pihak lelaki. Adat ini dilakukan bagi menyatakan tujuan mereka yang sebenarnya secara rasmi. Saudara-mara kedua-dua belah pihak akan berunding untuk menetapkan tarikh dan masa yang sesuai untuk adat bertunang pula.

The Date for Merisik n Meminang : 28 November 2011 @ My home

Bertunang
Selepas perbincangan diadakan, majlis pertunangan akan dilangsungkan. Pihak lelaki akan diwakili oleh ahli keluarga dan saudara mara terdekatnya untuk upacara bertunang.

The Date for Bertunang : January 2012 @ My home (time CNY)

Akad Nikah
Akad nikah merupakan satu acara paling penting dalam perkahwinan masyarakat Melayu yang rata-ratanya beragama Islam. Ia bukan suatu adat tetapi lebih kepada ajaran agama dan merupakan kemuncak kesahihan sesuatu perkahwinan. Upacara ini dijalankan selepas segala perjanjian yang dikenakan kepada pihak lelaki telah dilaksanakan seperti wang belanja, mas kahwin dan barangan lain sepertimana yang dipersetujui oleh kedua belah pihak. Akad nikah boleh dilakukan di masjid, di pejabat kadi atau pun di rumah pengantin perempuan dan dijalankan oleh tok kadi atau imam. Di dalam upacara akad nikah, bapa pengantin perempuan perlu menjadi wali untuk menikahkan anaknya. Walau bagaimanapun, dia juga boleh mewakilkannya kepada tok kadi atau imam.

The Date for Akad nikah : 6 April 2012 @ My home (a day before my Birthday!)


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so...hehehe...we jus bought the cincin bekah rotan..simple jer design n not expensive...i dun wear a gold ring (time raya jer given by my ma) at all time...so this is my first cutesy golden ring from My Sayang...thank u sayang..n sorry, not much of a choice to pick n i dun want u to waste it..Im eyeing for nikah nnt ;p hehehehe...thank u Lurve..



alhamdulillah~~


actuallu..post ni tersangatlah lama simpan...sepatutnyer sebelum post

3 Months, 4 Weeks, 2 Days to go...

....so, ape suda jadi??

xde majlis tunang..majlis risik terus ditunangkan...read the upper post aite :)

Friday, December 23, 2011

Little Attic Art GA!!!!




As i was browsing through facebook, i click on my future sis in-law facebook along

i know that along is a very creative person...i know she likes to do all these creative stuff such as jahit baju (i consider it as creative..it needs creativity!), quilling and paper crafts...

from Along's fcebook page i come across this creative blog too called Lin Handmade Greetings Card. Sgt chomey card2 beliau!! love it!!

then....

there's the GIVE AWAY POST!!
by 

Anyone can join this GA. Be it a Blogger OR a Facebooker. And guess, anywhere you are...

All you need to do is make a post about this giveaway and make sure there's a link to the PAGE!!

Then. In the comment box under the original post, please leave...

Your Name , Your Email , Your Posted Link

PRIZES TO BE WON?? ~~~>> Little Attic Art's Product

DEADLINE??? ~~~>> 28th December 2011

3 Lucky Winners will be picked randomly and the winners will be announced on
30th December 2011.
i hope i can win something :)
i like to try quilling...i like to start being creative again...
i remember my school years where i really enjoy painting, paper craftings and especially frame designing...i remember acrylic painting days with my mom..
i miss those happy n non-stressing moments...

the best thing is.....you are able to see the end product...and be proud of it...

i think mom still hv her acrylic paints somewhere hidden in the store room....MOM!!!

admiring quilling Guest Book...aaaahhh~~